Look, I am going to be wildly honest here; when I first met Tom I wanted him, for sexy time (that is the grown up way of putting it, thank you very much)

I strongly believe there is no right or wrong answer to this, only peoples happiness and a willingness to learn and be accepting and accepted.

In this post I aim to give you a little knowledge bomb on the thoughts I have had on the things we seek from other humans. And, lets be honest, what we seek from ourselves.